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How to find a serious partner online – dos and don’ts

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It’s no longer unusual to hear of people meeting serious partners online and, if you go about things the right way, there’s every reason to believe that you’ll find success.

However, there are several pitfalls to avoid when dating online (and there’s a surprising number of people who fail to heed them!). Pay attention to the following hints and you’ll have a better experience all round.

Be honest in your profile
It sounds obvious, but lots of people lie because they think they can get away with it. If you fabricate parts of your life, the right person won’t be able to find you and you’ll also affect your tailored search results.

If you want the perfect match, it’s no good starting out on a lie. Either you’ll get found out or you’ll find yourself in a relationship which isn’t suited to you at all.

Look for people with similar interests
Someone who regularly goes sky-diving might sound exciting but no good if you’re scared of heights. The best chance you have of meeting someone you click with is through similar interests and activities.

When you look for love online through dating websites, you can often use a search function to find people who enjoy the same things that you do. From there you can find dates who you already have something in common with.

Make sure you’re ready
There are a lot of people who go into online dating as a way to get over their ex or distract themselves from hurt feelings. Meeting people online can be fun but if you want to develop a new relationship, you need to make sure that you’re ready for it.

If problems from past relationships haven’t been resolved, you run the risk of hurting someone else’s feelings as well as your own.

Be realistic
Online dating can take time. Very few people find their soulmate at the first click. If you keep at it, you’re much more likely to find someone you can be happy with.

Getting frustrated and feeling defeated will only take up time and energy which could be spent on more useful things – like tailoring your searches and reassessing what sort of a person you are looking for.

Don’t give generic answers
The key to putting the best message across is show don’t tell. If you say you’re kind and loyal on your eHarmony UK profile, that’s all very well, but it doesn’t paint much of a picture for the other person.

Try to think of specific hobbies and interests which might grab someone’s attention – do you like to swim or travel or spend time with your pets? Being specific will give other people a chance to see who you are before you’ve even met.

Online dating can open up all kinds of possibilities when it comes to finding love. Keep an open mind, be honest and give it time – you could meet the right person sooner than you think.

 

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